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A Letter To You

A Letter To You

Dear Kid, This is getting ridiculous. Sometimes I am pretty sure you will have a complex about how you got here. I mean if you’re gonna have a complex may it be that we just loved the shit out of you and were willing to do ANYTHING to get you here. I’m not ready to go...
The Second Loss

The Second Loss

If you get enough practice at something the theory is you get good at it. Turns out, the same is not true for loss. Although I have been through MANY losses, they each hurt like hell. Recently I realized loss is now all around me. I wear my Gramma Jane’s nighties and...
Parenting Views (pre kid)

Parenting Views (pre kid)

This will be fun. Since I have some time on my hands I think it’d be fun to write about my parenting views BEFORE I have kids so we can all have a good laugh when I write this again in a few years to see how they changed with the reality of little knee biters.  ...
The Loss

The Loss

I’ve been thinking about what angle I wanted to take in writing about our first attempt at pregnancy. It’s been well over a month and I still don’t have a creative angle so I’ll just tell you what happened. We’re not pregnant. Truly that’s it. Our surrogate Mandy did...
Transfer

Transfer

For several days I’ve thought about transfer weekend and it’s quite hard to put it into words. However I am going to try my gosh darn best! Leading up to transfer Mandy (our surrogate’s name, she said it’s ok to use it) and I have texted every day and talked a couple...