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Therapy

Therapy

One could say “it’s complicated” when referring to my relationship with therapy. When I was maybe 12 and my parents got divorced I started hiding in my mom’s closet and telling her I wanted to die. I was a kid, my world was ripped apart and the “fun parent” (dad)...
A Letter To You

A Letter To You

Dear Kid, This is getting ridiculous. Sometimes I am pretty sure you will have a complex about how you got here. I mean if you’re gonna have a complex may it be that we just loved the shit out of you and were willing to do ANYTHING to get you here. I’m not ready to go...
The Second Loss

The Second Loss

If you get enough practice at something the theory is you get good at it. Turns out, the same is not true for loss. Although I have been through MANY losses, they each hurt like hell. Recently I realized loss is now all around me. I wear my Gramma Jane’s nighties and...
Parenting Views (pre kid)

Parenting Views (pre kid)

This will be fun. Since I have some time on my hands I think it’d be fun to write about my parenting views BEFORE I have kids so we can all have a good laugh when I write this again in a few years to see how they changed with the reality of little knee biters.  ...
Transfer

Transfer

For several days I’ve thought about transfer weekend and it’s quite hard to put it into words. However I am going to try my gosh darn best! Leading up to transfer Mandy (our surrogate’s name, she said it’s ok to use it) and I have texted every day and talked a couple...
GIMMIE THAT BABY!!

GIMMIE THAT BABY!!

I feel like this is a recurrent theme for me. I want to snuggle ALLL the babies, everywhere, all the time. To say I’m baby hungry is quite accurate as I want to eat all the little baby fingers and baby toes! I hear babies cry at work and I freak out and wanna take em...